When one cares about crazy people, often enough one gets trapped in a cycle of hoping they're smart enough not to do some stupid thing then, once they've done that, hoping they don't do the likely consequent stupid thing & so on. Mostly they do the stupid thing, fail to rise above their own craziness, sucks, but just how it is. Leads to diminished expectations of others generally, probably best.
For example- got support call from work last night, once again a third party failing to do a job we're not allowed to do, so much of that lately, pretty galling, sick of it. Diminished expectations help.
Thinking I should shave, maybe I'll shave.
Remind me to get coffee later, would you, dear?