Spent a good long while meaning to pour myself some scotch, finally got around to it. Thinking about pouring out some scotch for distraught guest some time ago, no reason I can't try to be nice to myself as well.
Maybe I'm not very good at it, sometimes it seems that way, mostly I think I'm better at it than most, just tend to pick people who have a hard time accepting other people being nice. Probably because they seem lonely & sad, so sue me.
Scotch doesn't help much with making me feel better about that, for work-related stress though, well, it's pretty great.